[Ben Azzai] used to say: “Do not be scornful of any person, and do not be disdainful of anything, for you have not person without his hour, and you have no thing without its place.” (Pirkei Avot 4:3)

When was the last time one of the children asked you something like, “What are those bumps on the wall?” or “Why is that person wearing a red hat?” Children notice the smallest things.

Rabbeinu B’chayei (13th century, Spain) explains that even if someone seems insignificant to you, or something appears to have no place, there will come a time when this person will be necessary, and this object will serve its purpose. It is important for us to take the time to notice how different people and different things can be relevant in the moment and/or in the future.

“Everything counts,” not always simultaneously or in every moment, but every thing and every person you encounter has what to offer. By giving our attention to the details of what we are doing, we can maximize ours and others’ activities and create fuller, more meaningful experiences.

Children provide a wonderful example of this attentiveness. When children play, they are fully absorbed in every aspect of their play. They are enchanted with dust bunnies and bugs. They ask questions about the littlest details. Nothing is lost.

As adults, we can learn from this mishna not to dismiss anyone or anything. Let us appreciate that every person, every creature, and every thing has merit and has the potential to affect our lives.